This post is for the guys who are ready to make the next jump. The guys who are ready to go from 6-7′s to 8+’s. We will force you to not care about any girl you come in contact with. Not a 9, not a “10″ not a “sweet heart girl next door”. No. You’re going to force yourself to believe that they are all the same. An intermediate player believes “Well if he has a 9 he must have strong ‘game’”. Wrong. That is an intermediate player mindset. The correct mindset is that they are all the same. A one is a five is a ten is a negative seven. Force yourself to make them all the same.
1. Go out day and night and you will hit on NOTHING but 8/9/10′s until you land a date.
2. At the date? Spit negative game.
Yes you read that right, spit the worst game possible. This sounds confusing to most but really in hindsight it will make sense. It is better to embed in your brain, correct game, than to leave even a speck of hope. If you are able to do this you are able to forever believe that there is a correct method to the “madness”. You have an unbreakable mindset now, everyone is the same. You must absolutely crush any shred of doubt that you know the answer.
1. Tell her how pretty she is.
2. Tell her how you’re looking to “settle down”.
3. Tell her how much you sit around watching sports.
4. Tell her how much of a “nice guy you are”
5. Tell her how you are going to go to a fancy restaurant.
6. Tell her everything that your average loser believes is a good catch.
7. Tell her so much that she truly believes you are needy and serious.
You end the date.
You leave and now instead of those 7′s seeming to be “attractive” you now realize it’s all the same.
Eventually, for the non-super attractive players out there. You must be willing to walk. You must be willing to say, “I have walked out on girls like you in the past” and she will feel that you are telling the truth. It is the truth you don’t care. Who gets more play, the guy who truly doesn’t care or the guy who “pretends he doesn’t care”. You know the answer.
The only “one” for you.. is the one night stand.
That is the difference between end-level high end game and intermediate game. You no longer see the surface. You see the meaning of the portrait. The facts. There is a saying: “You’re as valuable as your options.” If you’re willing to give up even an 8+… guess what… your options must be higher. You can do better.
Unfortunately? 99.999% of men cannot fathom mucking up a date with a “hot chick” on purpose. This is why, they will not last in the game, they will get roped.
We hope you see the point.
Very true. Excellent post. I think this is hard to do because biologically we are wired to go crazy for a hot girl due to what she represents from an evolutionary standpoint. The same is true for approaching in some sense.
Your strategy is a desensitization approach to realizing they are all the same. And they truly are.
It hurts to be told “I have walked out on girls like you in the past.”
Next time a guy says that I’m going to be the one walking away. Hahah.
Ha. You already like dating players.
This is true in terms of not caring but if you’re indexing a girl as a 9 or 10 to begin with you’ve already blown it. That’s already putting her on a pedestal. Girls are a 1 or 0. Yes or a no.
The previous mindset keeps you trapped in purgatory. If you’re thinking about “spitting any sort of game” you’ve blown it.
Why would you even devote that much time to a girl to analyze whats coming out of your mouth?
The second you start to screen people differently due to the fact they have a vagina or not…you’ve blown it. Do you act like a beta male purposefully lowering yourself around confident men so you can get out of the mindset they’re better?
No.
This article is a good start but still comes from a gynocentric “game” frame. I get what you’re trying to do here though and probably good advice for beginners so not bad.
Lol how’d you even find this old ass article!