A few emails have come in asking how men can meet a useful girl to help wing for them. The truth is there is no difference in the approach to picking up a girl and getting a new helpful wing woman. In fact it goes down in the exact same fashion, as an example here is how we met:
Walking around downtown shopping (dressed well and hungover), a skinny girl came by and asked for a light. This was an obvious green light to start hitting on her. After chit chatting, venue changing to grabbing drinks, we proceed to get drunk. Fast forward 3 hours and she’s in my place and I fail at my attempt to close her out. Not giving up on the situation we go ahead and use some choice drugs.
We head out to a club where I attempt again to get things going only to see another cute girl and completely change directions to picking up the new girl (bad move and a rookie mistake). Several drinks later (more party favors) and I’ve taken the new girl back to my place only to realize my future Wing Woman’s purse is on my couch. Cockblocked myself. The girl storms out grabbing a cab and WallStPlaygirl comes back only to grab her stuff and leave. At this point she realizes I’m a D-bag however, I invite her out to dance anyway and give her some useful life advice for nabbing better looking guys. It works. Suddenly I now have a solid 7 to go out and game with, another win win situation.
The moral of the story? Always Be Closing (ABC). At least if you fail she’ll have some respect for you and you can make a good friend out of it.
With the intro out of the way here are all the benefits of having a strong wing woman:
1. You make more stuff up. If you peg the girl you’re hitting on as someone who likes European men, well you can say you just got back from Spain, of course she’ll immediately turn to your friend who will now back you up.
2. You test outfits. Girls have good fashion sense, now you can try a few outfits here and there and see her reactions to them. Assuming she wants you to be successful you’ll get comments that you can use to build a better wardrobe.
3. You derail cockblockers. As you know most women go out with some awkward aspie cockblocker hanging around them so if the girl is cute she can easily entertain the guy who has not gotten laid since the smart phone era.
4. You obtain immediate positive attention. Assuming your wing woman is cute, simply dancing with her and having a good time will immediately make you the center of attention in a positive way. The chances of being blown out on your first few approaches becomes minimal.
5. You get drinks faster. Notably, you should be well known at the places you go to. However, if you go to new venues having a cute girl with you immediately brings you up to the front of the queue.
Now that we’ve gone over the benefits here are the downsides:
1. They may believe you are dating. The best way to avoid this is to simply split up frequently, if you end up drunkenly making out at the venue you’ve now ruined your chances at that spot so keep it to dancing and split up often.
2. You should pay for drinks. Being a D-bag is fine, but being broke is not, you should be willing and able to cover her entrance/drinks since the long-term investment is worth it.
That is the jist of having a wing woman, the downsides are minimal and every man should obtain a strong wing woman at some point in his life. If you get bored and want to see awful game go ahead and follow her on twitter: @WallStPlaygirl
IME here are the combinations that make game at least 25% easier:
– go solo
– go with a strong female wing
– go with a strong male wing
Going with a weak male wing (= you two don’t know each other well) or a weak group of unaffiliated guys (= creepy pack mentality) are equally bad. Better to go alone in those circumstances.
Even worse is not just a male wing who doesn’t know you / can’t make you laugh but who doesn’t understand how to wing: how to give props, accomplishment intros, keep the energy high, assist or back off as needed, follow & lead, etc.
About WallStPlayGirl, life gave you lemons, way to turn that shit gold.
what does she get out of the relationship?
Legit advice to get better guys, free nights out, entertainment.
The last one is probably the most fun for her but sure she’ll comment.
I read this one yesterday and laughed immediately all the way to the end. Sooo true!!!
Well, wtf was I doing downtown? The same thing Wall Street Playboy was!! LOL. Wall Street Playboy pulls SUAVE game.
It is true, though, I’ve said it before. The girls he meets will immediately turn to me for some kind of approval that my friend is a good guy, because women think another woman will be honest with them. I’ve been asked for confirmation on pretty much everything. What he does, does he have a girlfriend, did he just “move” here, are we “friends from childhood,” and all I gotta do is entertain her cockblocker friends a little – dance with them, give out my fake phone number, doesn’t hurt to do this wil I keep an eye out on the hot guys walking in 🙂
I also just get a thrill from seeing him get girls right and left. I like to see it all play out. It’s always very smooth and I’m a bit supporter of having him meet girls and then dump them. I mean, he’s actually quite compassionate about it. He will not let them get attached. Like he said, the point is to make them sleep with you, not fall in love with you. So, really no one is getting hurt here. Girls will lean better next time.
What do I get? A lot actually!
No sugar-coated advice. How many guys will tell what could make you look more attractive?
Advice on millionaires I meet..sugar-baby.
Advice on game. Try spitting game at me these days and there’s just two ways I go about it: play along, or move along. One of the men I was sleeping with once told me he felt he could not lie to me because I would sense it instantly.
I also feel overall safe when I’m at a club or going out. You always need someone to come “save” you and if that someone is a good looking guy, win!
I get a good dancer at the beginning of the night. I’ve danced with WS Playboy so many times it’s really easy to dance with him now.
I get a boy who will tell me when I’m getting too attached to another to someone I’m sleeping with. LOL.
I also don’t like going out with friends who are gonna cockblock me all night..you know, “friends.”
And yes, free drinks, but it’s a gentleman thing and everyone loves a gentleman.
It’s actually more fun when you see me go 0/25 on some nights. Those are always memorable. Fat people can ruin the vibe anywhere.
Just another comment, I aspire to a relationship with a playgirl like you someday. Props
“my future Wing Woman’s purse is on my couch. Cockblocked myself.”
This website is great informative, humerous and educational. Hope you guys blow up soon. D-bags ftw!
Good stuff… WSP why didn’t you tell it was your sister’s purse! hahaha.
1. We look nothing alike
2. Realization she’d be coming back soon
Land mining myself with bad decisions = good story for the future.
Not sure where to put this post, feel free to delete, but can you do a post on credit card management? The personal finance advice is just as good as the Wall Street info.